tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374938803668094725.post8776215331358447734..comments2012-09-11T18:37:58.534-07:00Comments on Some Whine and Jeez: My Mother Drives Me NutsBreeBreehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04505818693839192691noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374938803668094725.post-39243132681237527862012-09-09T10:47:22.217-07:002012-09-09T10:47:22.217-07:00Here's the thing...you won't do this to yo...Here's the thing...you won't do this to your own daughter if you do right by her in this moment.<br />Mine tried. Did her best...but I was largely unsupervised, doing all kinds of glorious things that in all honesty keep me from attending my class reunions because my own teen behavior embarasses me. You are doing the right thing. 1000%..not a typo! Your daughter was going down the wrong road...you stepped in and basically picked her up, showed her YOU are aware. You are still her parent. She isn't a grown up yet...and that you won't allow her to do this to herself. <br />That is HUGE. Pat yourself on the back my friend! I read so many blogs that their kids are on the wrong track and all they do is cry and whine about it. They aren't willing to do the hard stuff. The stuff that makes their kids scream "I hate you". I say your not doing it right if they DON'T say that.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374938803668094725.post-4718269496648385542012-09-07T20:55:28.799-07:002012-09-07T20:55:28.799-07:00THANK YOU! I am so happy to see someone responded...THANK YOU! I am so happy to see someone responded and you see my point here! It's so frustrating because I would love for her to be responsible and capable of handling a relationship in a healthy way. Good Lord, I hope I don't do this to my daughter when she is grown!!BreeBreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04505818693839192691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-374938803668094725.post-21699919714667876262012-09-06T16:12:51.407-07:002012-09-06T16:12:51.407-07:00I will jump in here.
Yes. Not just Yes...but FUCK ...I will jump in here.<br />Yes. Not just Yes...but FUCK YES! That is exactly what your mother is doing. <br />and I'm speaking as someone who knows. My own mother is constantly trying to be in our business. Tell me what my kids "should" be doing, not doing...but yet..when I say something she doesn't like she freaks out and does the equivalent of LA LA LA La..with her hands over her ears...seriously damn close.<br />You ARE the mom in this situation. Your mom has just proven herself to be unable to respect the rules you have put in place for your daughter (with good reason)...therefore, grannie can only see your kids with supervision. <br />I feel you 100% and back you up! Your mama needs to mind her business. <br />It's going to be rough though because after 36 yrs of telling you what to do..she isnt going to take kindly to letting you make the decisions in your life.<br />And Good Lord! Keep her OUT of your relationship. This was a big problem at my house. Well..no MORE. I put up serious boundaries..now she just stalks me online (hi mom!).. yay me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com